
The Self-Talk
Cheat Sheet
50 Questions to Ask Yourself Instead of Beating Yourself Up
Do you ever catch yourself spiraling after a rough moment—questioning your worth as a mom, feeling guilty for how you reacted, or wondering if you’re breaking your child instead of cycles?
You’re not alone.
And you’re not failing.
You’re just overwhelmed. And this tool can help.
The Self-Talk Cheat Sheet was created for the moments when the pressure, perfectionism, and old narratives start to take over. With 50 powerful questions, this guide will help you soften your self-talk, reframe your thoughts, and return to the calm, capable version of you underneath the chaos.
What You'll Get
50 compassionate, reflection-based questions to shift your mindset in real time
A tool you can keep on hand for the hard moments (no toxic positivity, I promise)
Sections tailored to guilt spirals, compassion, personal growth, and nervous system overwhelm
Written by a certified parent coach and fellow cycle-breaker who gets it
Who It's For
You’re trying to reparent yourself while raising tiny humans
You often spiral in guilt or self-doubt after tough parenting moments
You want to break free from the harsh inner voice you were raised with
You’re a deep feeler, a cycle-breaker, or a highly sensitive mama doing her best